From: Nurse Charles <hello@nursecharles.com>
To: You

The family I still think about from my second year in the ER

My second year in the emergency room. Emory Healthcare. A mother came into the waiting area.

Her son was being treated. She had found him. She had called 911. She had done everything right, and she had no idea what had happened or what she should have done differently.

She asked me one question.

"What did I do wrong?"

The answer was nothing. She had done nothing wrong. But the thing I kept thinking about, for years after that, was what might have been different if she had known. Not after. Before.


There is a window that most people do not know exists. Between when a drug emergency begins and when EMS arrives, there are roughly 4 minutes. What happens in that window can determine what happens next.

In that window, most families freeze. Not because they do not care. Because they do not know what they are looking at, and they do not know what to do.

Three things break the freeze:

  1. Know the signs. Fewer than 8 breaths per minute. Pinpoint pupils. Gurgling or snoring from someone you cannot wake. These are the three.
  2. Know the position. Recovery position: on their side, airway open. One step, easy to learn, possible to remember under pressure.
  3. Have Narcan. Over the counter. No prescription. Available at CVS, Walgreens, Walmart. It does nothing if opioids are not involved. It reverses the overdose if they are.

That is the whole gap. Three things. Most families do not have any of them.


I have spent 30 years in the emergency room. More than 30 million people have watched my videos. The question that keeps coming up, in the comments, in the DMs, from families in that waiting room: why didn't anyone tell us this before?

That is why I built the free Overdose Response Guide. The information that family needed before that night. In plain language. No medical training required.

It is free. One email. No strings. Because the family in that waiting room deserved to have known this already, and so does yours.

Nurse Charles
RN, 30 Years Emergency Room
Emory Healthcare
P.S. If you know someone who should have this information, forward it. The guide is free for exactly this reason.